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This is from a post made here on Facebook. I'm copying it here, with the permission of the original author, so that people off Facebook can see it.

I had the pleasure of Terry’s company on a week-long Writer’s Retreat twice, in 1990, as part of a company of eight interesting people in Diss, Suffolk.

Terry later came to my wedding and gave me a proof copy of ‘Lords and Ladies’ as a wedding gift! I had never read his books before I met him, so I began with ‘Wyrd Sisters’ - and have carried on reading them ever since.

When he learned I was meeting up with Terry again, my local Librarian shouted ‘Oook!’ and collected up every book by Terry which he had in the Library, and asked him to sign them. This amused Terry - and shocked other participants! "You shouldn't write in Library Books" etc...

Terry and I were both reading Henry Mayhew’s ‘London labour and the London poor’ at the time.

I asked Terry to make a list of other books which he found inspirational. Here they are:

  • ‘The Evolution Man’ by Roy Lewis.

  • ‘The Specialist’ by Charles Sale.

  • ‘The Canterbury Tales’ by Chaucer.

  • ‘Fairy Tales’ by Charles Perrault.

  • Jacqueline Simpson’s folklore books.

  • Everything by J R R Tolkien and C S Lewis.

  • ‘The Wind From the Sun’ by Arthur C. Clarke.

  • ‘Cold Comfort Farm’ by Stella Gibbons (my favourite book).

  • ‘Mistress Masham’s Repose’ and the Arthurian Trilogy by T H White.

  • I also add the new series of novels set in St Mary’s by Jodi Taylor, of whom I am a keen fan, and strongly recommend. Terry told Jodi how much he liked her writings. Start with ‘Just One Da*ned Thing After Another’ and carry on enjoying!

  • Edit - I forgot 'The Moomins' series!

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Following yesterday's illness, I was vaguely hoping that he would stay asleep through the night. Alas:

12:05
"I need a wee"
Took him to the toilet.
"Daddy, my tummy hurts"
Gave him some medicine
"Do you want to be in pyjamas or just straight back to bed?"
"Back to bed"
And then he closed his eyes.

12:20
Thundering footsteps "Daddy, I feel sick"
Told him to go to the toilet. Kept him company, got him a bucket.
He wasn't sick.
Persuaded him to take the bucket to bed.
Sat on the floor next to his bed until he closed his eyes.

12:35
More thundering steps
"Daddy, my arm and leg hurt"
By the time I'd found him medicine he was asleep again.
But woke up again and let me give him some Calpol.

03:30
"I'm hungry" (not surprising as he didn't eat yesterday)
We agreed on cream cheese crackers.
He ate ⅘ of the cracker and drank some juice and passed out again.

06:30
"I checked the light coming under the curtain and it's morning time"
I told him to go play games on the Switch downstairs.
Fifteen minutes later I could still hear him wandering about and I hadn't heard any game noises.
Went to check on him and he told him that he'd found various points around the house where the floor isn't flat.
Got him settled with the Switch, and then went back to bed and stared vacantly at my phone for an hour, before getting up to face the day.
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I'm going to be doing a little maintenance today. It will likely cause a tiny interruption of service (specifically for www.dreamwidth.org) on the order of 2-3 minutes while some settings propagate. If you're on a journal page, that should still work throughout!

If it doesn't work, the rollback plan is pretty quick, I'm just toggling a setting on how traffic gets to the site. I'll update this post if something goes wrong, but don't anticipate any interruption to be longer than 10 minutes even in a rollback situation.

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The first time Gideon fell asleep in front of the toilet we moved him to a comfy chair. From where he woke up still feeling sick and Jane found him lying on the floor with a bucket he'd found and relocated him back to the toilet, where he then fell asleep again.

I missed all of this because I had passed out in bed feeling rubbish. I did wake up to various noises, but each time I did I tried to open my eyelids, failed, and fell back to sleep again. Thankfully Jane isn't feeling as bad as me, and Sophia was off having a play date at the other end of the street.

So far nobody has actually thrown up. Fingers crossed that continues.
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CNN.com  has a report on the Trump Administration's decision to attack Iran. It appears that the idea was to kill off all the senior leadership, so that the next level of people would succeed to power. The Administration hoped those people would be amenable to a change in Iranian policy. Just about all aspects of it. 

That has a lot of dubious assumptions in it. It was likely to founder on the lack of popular support for any new government that changes everything after bombardment. Authoritarians tend to assume that everyone else is cowardly and stupid, while being entirely unconscious of their own failings on that front. It may well have been suggested by the Israeli government, which is very keen to destroy Iran, needs the USA's assistance to stand a chance of doing that, and can play Donald Trump like a fiddle. 

However, the US plan destroyed itself, because it soon became clear after the initial strikes that the people on whom hope had been placed were also dead. Is this true? I don't know, but it has a horrible plausibility. It implies that the continued attacks are to avoid looking stupid, which seems entirely consistent with Trump's behaviour.  
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What's the soonest you can tell a new partner you love them?

View Answers

First date
2 (6.9%)

First few days
1 (3.4%)

First week
1 (3.4%)

First two weeks
2 (6.9%)

First month
4 (13.8%)

First two months
3 (10.3%)

First six months
5 (17.2%)

First year
2 (6.9%)

Longer than a year
0 (0.0%)

THEY MUST NEVER KNOW
1 (3.4%)

I don't do "Love"
1 (3.4%)

SEWIWEIC
7 (24.1%)

What's the longest you'd wait for a partner to declare love before giving up on them?

View Answers

First date
0 (0.0%)

First few days
0 (0.0%)

First week
0 (0.0%)

First two weeks
0 (0.0%)

First month
0 (0.0%)

First two months
4 (13.3%)

First six months
5 (16.7%)

First year
6 (20.0%)

Longer than a year
2 (6.7%)

I WILL WAIT FOREVER
3 (10.0%)

I don't do "Love"
1 (3.3%)

SEWIWEIC
9 (30.0%)

Triggered by a couple of things recently where people were shocked that people would tell them that they were in love within the first few months.

And my general view is that if you aren't incredibly excited to spend loads of time with me and wander around holding hands while grinning a lot within the first few weeks of dating then we are probably not compatible.

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Another RPG bundle - Age of Ambition

Mar. 9th, 2026 06:47 pm
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This is a bundle of material for Age of Ambition, an RPG about a fantasy world trying to modernize and adapt to technology and rapid social and political changes following an alien invasion:

https://bundleofholding.com/presents/Ambition


  


I'm not familiar with the rules system, but it looks reasonably playable and layout is good. If you get the complete bundle you're getting a lot for your money including numerous worldbooks and adventures, and the setting is novel enough that players ought to find it interesting. 
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I was chatting to a couple of friends last week, and realised that I really fancied having one of those "bar chart race" videos for my links, showing what had been the most popular links over the last 21 years that I've been saving links (to Delicious, and then Pinboard).

So I downloaded the JSON blob of my whole link history, used some PowerShell to slice and dice it into a CSV, and uploaded it to a site that converts a bunch of data with dates into a bar chart race. And voila:

Unsurprising to see "Europe" break the top 20 in 2017. Followed a year later by "OhForFucksSake".

Both files available here, for the very curious.

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About two months ago Gideon discovered Mario Odyssey. He played ¾ of it with me, and then restarted and played the whole game by himself.

And then followed that up by playing all of Kirby and the Forgotten Land.

And then, this afternoon, discovered that we have a PS4. So now we're playing The Last Guardian. He is delighted by his pet dog-dragon.
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Last Sunday Sophia threw up.

She spent Monday and Tuesday with a fever, and then Wednesday clearly feeling better but not well enough to go to school.

She was mostly either asleep or watching videos. I worked at home on the Monday, when she mostly slept.

On Tuesday I had to work from the office, which is when Jane had to deal with a lot of...demands.

And then I worked at home on Wednesday, although I did drop-off and pick-up. She continued to have demands, and we split them as best we could, depending on who had meetings when.

And then by Thursday she was feeling much better, and made it in to school for World Book Day, where she was Sophie from the BFG (pyjamas and drawn-on glasses). And since then she's thankfully been fine.
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